Be Valiant
Ep. 48 Episode 25 - Liz Masakayan: An Olympic Volleyball Player and Coach’s Perspective on Youth Sports (Audio)
In this episode of Be Valiant, host Todd Merkow sits down with former Olympian, elite beach volleyball player, and coach Liz Masakayan for a candid, real-world conversation about what youth sports has become—and what it should be.
Drawing from her experience as both an athlete and coach, Liz breaks down the growing tension between structure and freedom in youth sports. From the pressures of tryouts and early specialization to the realities of team dynamics, confidence, and development, this episode challenges many of the assumptions parents and athletes carry into the process.
Todd and Liz explore:
- Why so many athletes are moving from indoor to beach volleyball
- The difference between control and ownership in an athlete’s journey
- How early labels and positional decisions can limit development
- The importance of accountability, communication, and resilience
- What parents get wrong—especially from the sidelines
- Why adversity, not comfort, leads to long-term growth
- This is not a theoretical conversation—it’s grounded in lived experience, real challenges, and honest perspective.
If you’re a parent navigating youth sports, or an athlete trying to find your path, this episode will help you think differently about development, competition, and what truly matters.
Be Valiant. Play Fearless.
All Episodes
04/01/2026
Ep. 48 Episode 25 - Liz Masakayan: An Olympic Volleyball Player and Coach’s Perspective on Youth Sports (Audio)03/25/2026
Ep. 47 Episode 24 - The Truth About College Recruiting (and What Parents Get Wrong)03/25/2026
Ep. 46 Episode 24 - The Truth About College Recruiting (and What Parents Get Wrong) (Audio)03/18/2026
Ep. 45 Episode 23 - Christian Lavers and the ECNL Vision: What Youth Sports Should Look Like03/18/2026
Ep. 44 Episode 23 - Christian Lavers and the ECNL Vision: What Youth Sports Should Look Like (Audio)03/11/2026
Ep. 43 Episode 22 - Dr. Eric Dean: Multi-Sport, Time Off, and Smart Prevention: A Sports Doctor’s Playbook03/11/2026
Ep. 42 Episode 22 - Dr. Eric Dean: Multi-Sport, Time Off, and Smart Prevention: A Sports Doctor’s Playbook (Audio)03/04/2026
Ep. 41 Episode 21 - Joel Votaw: From the Middle of the Field: What Youth Soccer Referees Wish Parents Knew03/04/2026
Ep. 40 Episode 21 - Joel Votaw: From the Middle of the Field: What Youth Soccer Referees Wish Parents Knew (Audio)02/25/2026
Ep. 39 Episode 20 - Skye Eddy: How to Be the Sports Parent Your Child Actually Needs02/25/2026
Ep. 38 Episode 20 - Skye Eddy: How to Be the Sports Parent Your Child Actually Needs (Audio)02/18/2026
Ep. 37 Episode 19 - Crystalrae States: Development, Mental Health & Youth Softball02/18/2026
Ep. 36 Episode 19 - Crystalrae States: Development, Mental Health & Youth Softball (Audio)02/11/2026
Ep. 35 Episode 18 - Growing Up Santo: How Linda Santo Raised Confident, Balanced Athletes02/11/2026
Ep. 34 Episode 18 - Growing Up Santo: How Linda Santo Raised Confident, Balanced Athletes (Audio)02/04/2026
Ep. 33 Episode 17 - Part 3 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Will Proctor, The Athlete’s Voice02/04/2026
Ep. 32 Episode 17 - Part 3 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Will Proctor, The Athlete’s Voice (Audio)01/28/2026
Ep. 31 Episode 16 - Part 2 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Lisa Proctor, A Mother’s Perspective01/28/2026
Ep. 30 Episode 16 - Part 2 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Lisa Proctor, A Mother’s Perspective (Audio)01/21/2026
Ep. 29 Episode 15 - Part 1 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Jeff Proctor, A Dad's View01/21/2026
Ep. 28 Episode 15 - Part 1 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Jeff Proctor, A Dad's View (Audio)01/14/2026
Ep. 27 Episode 14 - Jody Jackson on Youth Sports, Pressure, and Raising Healthy Athletes01/14/2026
Ep. 26 Episode 14 - Jody Jackson on Youth Sports, Pressure, and Raising Healthy Athletes (Audio)01/07/2026
Ep. 25 Episode 13 - Mark Hilinski: What Parents Don’t See — Student-Athlete Mental Health and Hilinski’s Hope01/07/2026
Ep. 24 Episode 13 - Mark Hilinski: What Parents Don’t See — Student-Athlete Mental Health and Hilinski’s Hope (Audio)01/01/2026
Ep. 23 Episode 12 -Re-Release: Madison Merkow — Pressure, Perspective, and Owning Your Youth Sports Journey01/01/2026
Ep. 22 Episode 12 -Re-Release: Madison Merkow — Pressure, Perspective, and Owning Your Youth Sports Journey (Audio)12/24/2025
Ep. 21 Episode 11 - Re-Release: Sydney Merkow — Identity, Pressure, and Finding Your Way Through Youth Sports12/24/2025
Ep. 20 Episode 11 - Re-Release: Sydney Merkow — Identity, Pressure, and Finding Your Way Through Youth Sports (Audio)12/17/2025
Ep. 19 Episode 10 - Raising Empowered Athletes: A Conversation with Kirsten Jones12/16/2025
Ep. 18 Episode 10 - Raising Empowered Athletes: A Conversation with Kirsten Jones (Audio)12/10/2025
Ep. 17 Episode 9 - Coaching Beyond the Game: Leadership and Legacy with Charlie Turner Thorne, former Arizona State University Women’s Basketball Coach12/10/2025
Ep. 16 Episode 9 - Coaching Beyond the Game: Leadership and Legacy with Charlie Turner Thorne, former Arizona State University Women’s Basketball Coach (Audio)12/03/2025
Ep. 15 Episode 8 - Taking Back the Game: A Conversation with Linda Flanagan12/03/2025
Ep. 14 Episode 8 - Taking Back the Game: A Conversation with Linda Flanagan (Audio)11/26/2025
Ep. 13 Episode 7 - High School Sports, Culture, and Community with Kevin McCabe the “Dean of AZ High School Sports11/26/2025
Ep. 12 Episode 7 - High School Sports, Culture, and Community with Kevin McCabe the “Dean of AZ High School Sports (Audio)11/19/2025
Ep. 11 Episode 6 - College Sports, Change, and the Youth Connection with former College Commissioner Bob Dranoff11/19/2025
Ep. 10 Episode 6 - College Sports, Change, and the Youth Connection with former College Commissioner Bob Dranoff (Audio)11/12/2025
Ep. 9 Episode 5 - Travel Sports, Pressure, and Perspective with Steve Borelli, USA Today11/12/2025
Ep. 8 Episode 5 - Travel Sports, Pressure, and Perspective with Steve Borelli, USA Today (Audio)11/05/2025
Ep. 7 Episode 4 - Coaching, Culture, and Sports Parenting: A Conversation with Mike Strati11/05/2025
Ep. 6 Episode 4 - Coaching, Culture, and Sports Parenting: A Conversation with Mike Strati (Audio)10/29/2025
Ep. 5 Episode 3 - From the Sidelines to the Pitch: A Dad–Daughter Soccer Journey Conversation with Sydney Merkow10/29/2025
Ep. 4 Episode 3 - From the Sidelines to the Pitch: A Dad–Daughter Soccer Journey Conversation with Sydney Merkow (Audio)10/21/2025
Ep. 3 Episode 2 - From the Stands to the Sand: A Dad–Daughter Sports Journey Conversation with Madison Merkow10/21/2025
Ep. 2 Episode 2 - From the Stands to the Sand: A Dad–Daughter Sports Journey Conversation with Madison Merkow (Audio)10/14/2025
Ep. 1 Episode 1 - Why Be Valiant? The Parent’s Journey Through Youth Sports - Monologue by Todd Merkow (Host of Be Valiant and founder of Valiant Sports Society) - Audio