Be Valiant
Ep. 38 Episode 20 - Skye Eddy: How to Be the Sports Parent Your Child Actually Needs (Audio)
"What if the biggest pressure your child feels in sports… isn’t from the coach?
In this powerful episode of Be Valiant, Todd sits down with former collegiate All-American goalkeeper and founder of SoccerParenting.com, and The Sideline Project.
Skye has lived youth sports from every angle — elite player, coach, and sports parent. But it wasn’t until she was raising her own daughter in competitive soccer that she realized something surprising:
“I was surprised how much I cared.”
That realization led to the creation of Soccer Parenting and The Sideline Project — initiatives designed to help parents show up in ways that truly support their kids’ development, confidence, and long-term love of the game.
In this conversation, we unpack:
- Why even “good” parents can unintentionally create pressure
- The stress dynamic between coaches and parents
- How misalignment at home affects young athletes
- The difference between supportive and distracting sideline behavior
- Why “youth sports belongs to children”
- The Six Pillars of effective sports parenting
- How a 15-minute course is changing sideline culture nationwide
This episode is not about winning more games. It’s about raising healthier, more confident kids.
If you’re a parent navigating youth sports — whether in soccer, volleyball, baseball, or beyond — this conversation will challenge you, empower you, and give you practical tools you can use immediately.
Be Valiant. Play Fearless."
All Episodes
02/25/2026
Ep. 39 Episode 20 - Skye Eddy: How to Be the Sports Parent Your Child Actually Needs02/25/2026
Ep. 38 Episode 20 - Skye Eddy: How to Be the Sports Parent Your Child Actually Needs (Audio)02/18/2026
Ep. 37 Episode 19 - Crystalrae States: Development, Mental Health & Youth Softball02/18/2026
Ep. 36 Episode 19 - Crystalrae States: Development, Mental Health & Youth Softball (Audio)02/11/2026
Ep. 35 Episode 18 - Growing Up Santo: How Linda Santo Raised Confident, Balanced Athletes02/11/2026
Ep. 34 Episode 18 - Growing Up Santo: How Linda Santo Raised Confident, Balanced Athletes (Audio)02/04/2026
Ep. 33 Episode 17 - Part 3 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Will Proctor, The Athlete’s Voice02/04/2026
Ep. 32 Episode 17 - Part 3 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Will Proctor, The Athlete’s Voice (Audio)01/28/2026
Ep. 31 Episode 16 - Part 2 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Lisa Proctor, A Mother’s Perspective01/28/2026
Ep. 30 Episode 16 - Part 2 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Lisa Proctor, A Mother’s Perspective (Audio)01/21/2026
Ep. 29 Episode 15 - Part 1 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Jeff Proctor, A Dad's View01/21/2026
Ep. 28 Episode 15 - Part 1 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Jeff Proctor, A Dad's View (Audio)01/14/2026
Ep. 27 Episode 14 - Jody Jackson on Youth Sports, Pressure, and Raising Healthy Athletes01/14/2026
Ep. 26 Episode 14 - Jody Jackson on Youth Sports, Pressure, and Raising Healthy Athletes (Audio)01/07/2026
Ep. 25 Episode 13 - Mark Hilinski: What Parents Don’t See — Student-Athlete Mental Health and Hilinski’s Hope01/07/2026
Ep. 24 Episode 13 - Mark Hilinski: What Parents Don’t See — Student-Athlete Mental Health and Hilinski’s Hope (Audio)01/01/2026
Ep. 23 Episode 12 -Re-Release: Madison Merkow — Pressure, Perspective, and Owning Your Youth Sports Journey01/01/2026
Ep. 22 Episode 12 -Re-Release: Madison Merkow — Pressure, Perspective, and Owning Your Youth Sports Journey (Audio)12/24/2025
Ep. 21 Episode 11 - Re-Release: Sydney Merkow — Identity, Pressure, and Finding Your Way Through Youth Sports12/24/2025
Ep. 20 Episode 11 - Re-Release: Sydney Merkow — Identity, Pressure, and Finding Your Way Through Youth Sports (Audio)12/17/2025
Ep. 19 Episode 10 - Raising Empowered Athletes: A Conversation with Kirsten Jones12/16/2025
Ep. 18 Episode 10 - Raising Empowered Athletes: A Conversation with Kirsten Jones (Audio)12/10/2025
Ep. 17 Episode 9 - Coaching Beyond the Game: Leadership and Legacy with Charlie Turner Thorne, former Arizona State University Women’s Basketball Coach12/10/2025
Ep. 16 Episode 9 - Coaching Beyond the Game: Leadership and Legacy with Charlie Turner Thorne, former Arizona State University Women’s Basketball Coach (Audio)12/03/2025
Ep. 15 Episode 8 - Taking Back the Game: A Conversation with Linda Flanagan12/03/2025
Ep. 14 Episode 8 - Taking Back the Game: A Conversation with Linda Flanagan (Audio)11/26/2025
Ep. 13 Episode 7 - High School Sports, Culture, and Community with Kevin McCabe the “Dean of AZ High School Sports11/26/2025
Ep. 12 Episode 7 - High School Sports, Culture, and Community with Kevin McCabe the “Dean of AZ High School Sports (Audio)11/19/2025
Ep. 11 Episode 6 - College Sports, Change, and the Youth Connection with former College Commissioner Bob Dranoff11/19/2025
Ep. 10 Episode 6 - College Sports, Change, and the Youth Connection with former College Commissioner Bob Dranoff (Audio)11/12/2025
Ep. 9 Episode 5 - Travel Sports, Pressure, and Perspective with Steve Borelli, USA Today11/12/2025
Ep. 8 Episode 5 - Travel Sports, Pressure, and Perspective with Steve Borelli, USA Today (Audio)11/05/2025
Ep. 7 Episode 4 - Coaching, Culture, and Sports Parenting: A Conversation with Mike Strati11/05/2025
Ep. 6 Episode 4 - Coaching, Culture, and Sports Parenting: A Conversation with Mike Strati (Audio)10/29/2025
Ep. 5 Episode 3 - From the Sidelines to the Pitch: A Dad–Daughter Soccer Journey Conversation with Sydney Merkow10/29/2025
Ep. 4 Episode 3 - From the Sidelines to the Pitch: A Dad–Daughter Soccer Journey Conversation with Sydney Merkow (Audio)10/21/2025
Ep. 3 Episode 2 - From the Stands to the Sand: A Dad–Daughter Sports Journey Conversation with Madison Merkow10/21/2025
Ep. 2 Episode 2 - From the Stands to the Sand: A Dad–Daughter Sports Journey Conversation with Madison Merkow (Audio)10/14/2025
Ep. 1 Episode 1 - Why Be Valiant? The Parent’s Journey Through Youth Sports - Monologue by Todd Merkow (Host of Be Valiant and founder of Valiant Sports Society) - Audio