Be Valiant

Ep. 47 Episode 24 - The Truth About College Recruiting (and What Parents Get Wrong)


In this episode of Be Valiant, Todd sits down with former Arizona State baseball standout and SportsForce CEO Andrew Beinbrink to unpack the reality of youth sports development and the college recruiting process.

Andrew shares his journey from multi-sport athlete to pro baseball, and how those experiences shaped his mission to help families navigate one of the most confusing—and often misunderstood—paths in youth sports.

This conversation goes far beyond recruiting. It dives into parenting, pressure, mental resilience, and what truly matters in an athlete’s development.

If you’re a parent trying to make the “right” decisions for your child—or feeling overwhelmed by the process—this episode is a must-listen.

Key Takeaways:

• Why early specialization may be hurting your athlete

• The 3 things kids actually want from sports (hint: it’s not scholarships)

• How the transfer portal is reshaping recruiting opportunities

• Why most families misunderstand their athlete’s true level

• How to support your child without adding pressure

Be Valiant. Play Fearless.

Host: Todd Merkow (Founder & CEO, Valiant Sports Society)

All Episodes

03/25/2026

Ep. 47 Episode 24 - The Truth About College Recruiting (and What Parents Get Wrong)

03/25/2026

Ep. 46 Episode 24 - The Truth About College Recruiting (and What Parents Get Wrong) (Audio)

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Ep. 45 Episode 23 - Christian Lavers and the ECNL Vision: What Youth Sports Should Look Like

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Ep. 44 Episode 23 - Christian Lavers and the ECNL Vision: What Youth Sports Should Look Like (Audio)

03/11/2026

Ep. 43 Episode 22 - Dr. Eric Dean: Multi-Sport, Time Off, and Smart Prevention: A Sports Doctor’s Playbook

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Ep. 42 Episode 22 - Dr. Eric Dean: Multi-Sport, Time Off, and Smart Prevention: A Sports Doctor’s Playbook (Audio)

03/04/2026

Ep. 41 Episode 21 - Joel Votaw: From the Middle of the Field: What Youth Soccer Referees Wish Parents Knew

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Ep. 40 Episode 21 - Joel Votaw: From the Middle of the Field: What Youth Soccer Referees Wish Parents Knew (Audio)

02/25/2026

Ep. 39 Episode 20 - Skye Eddy: How to Be the Sports Parent Your Child Actually Needs

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Ep. 38 Episode 20 - Skye Eddy: How to Be the Sports Parent Your Child Actually Needs (Audio)

02/18/2026

Ep. 37 Episode 19 - Crystalrae States: Development, Mental Health & Youth Softball

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Ep. 36 Episode 19 - Crystalrae States: Development, Mental Health & Youth Softball (Audio)

02/11/2026

Ep. 35 Episode 18 - Growing Up Santo: How Linda Santo Raised Confident, Balanced Athletes

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Ep. 34 Episode 18 - Growing Up Santo: How Linda Santo Raised Confident, Balanced Athletes (Audio)

02/04/2026

Ep. 33 Episode 17 - Part 3 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Will Proctor, The Athlete’s Voice

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Ep. 32 Episode 17 - Part 3 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Will Proctor, The Athlete’s Voice (Audio)

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Ep. 31 Episode 16 - Part 2 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Lisa Proctor, A Mother’s Perspective

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Ep. 30 Episode 16 - Part 2 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Lisa Proctor, A Mother’s Perspective (Audio)

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Ep. 29 Episode 15 - Part 1 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Jeff Proctor, A Dad's View

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Ep. 28 Episode 15 - Part 1 of 3 — When the Dream Unexpectedly Changes: Jeff Proctor, A Dad's View (Audio)

01/14/2026

Ep. 27 Episode 14 - Jody Jackson on Youth Sports, Pressure, and Raising Healthy Athletes

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Ep. 26 Episode 14 - Jody Jackson on Youth Sports, Pressure, and Raising Healthy Athletes (Audio)

01/07/2026

Ep. 25 Episode 13 - Mark Hilinski: What Parents Don’t See — Student-Athlete Mental Health and Hilinski’s Hope

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Ep. 24 Episode 13 - Mark Hilinski: What Parents Don’t See — Student-Athlete Mental Health and Hilinski’s Hope (Audio)

01/01/2026

Ep. 23 Episode 12 -Re-Release: Madison Merkow — Pressure, Perspective, and Owning Your Youth Sports Journey

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Ep. 22 Episode 12 -Re-Release: Madison Merkow — Pressure, Perspective, and Owning Your Youth Sports Journey (Audio)

12/24/2025

Ep. 21 Episode 11 - Re-Release: Sydney Merkow — Identity, Pressure, and Finding Your Way Through Youth Sports

12/24/2025

Ep. 20 Episode 11 - Re-Release: Sydney Merkow — Identity, Pressure, and Finding Your Way Through Youth Sports (Audio)

12/17/2025

Ep. 19 Episode 10 - Raising Empowered Athletes: A Conversation with Kirsten Jones

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Ep. 18 Episode 10 - Raising Empowered Athletes: A Conversation with Kirsten Jones (Audio)

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Ep. 17 Episode 9 - Coaching Beyond the Game: Leadership and Legacy with Charlie Turner Thorne, former Arizona State University Women’s Basketball Coach

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Ep. 16 Episode 9 - Coaching Beyond the Game: Leadership and Legacy with Charlie Turner Thorne, former Arizona State University Women’s Basketball Coach (Audio)

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Ep. 15 Episode 8 - Taking Back the Game: A Conversation with Linda Flanagan

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Ep. 13 Episode 7 - High School Sports, Culture, and Community with Kevin McCabe the “Dean of AZ High School Sports

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Ep. 12 Episode 7 - High School Sports, Culture, and Community with Kevin McCabe the “Dean of AZ High School Sports (Audio)

11/19/2025

Ep. 11 Episode 6 - College Sports, Change, and the Youth Connection with former College Commissioner Bob Dranoff

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Ep. 10 Episode 6 - College Sports, Change, and the Youth Connection with former College Commissioner Bob Dranoff (Audio)

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Ep. 9 Episode 5 - Travel Sports, Pressure, and Perspective with Steve Borelli, USA Today

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Ep. 8 Episode 5 - Travel Sports, Pressure, and Perspective with Steve Borelli, USA Today (Audio)

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Ep. 7 Episode 4 - Coaching, Culture, and Sports Parenting: A Conversation with Mike Strati

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Ep. 6 Episode 4 - Coaching, Culture, and Sports Parenting: A Conversation with Mike Strati (Audio)

10/29/2025

Ep. 5 Episode 3 - From the Sidelines to the Pitch: A Dad–Daughter Soccer Journey Conversation with Sydney Merkow

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Ep. 4 Episode 3 - From the Sidelines to the Pitch: A Dad–Daughter Soccer Journey Conversation with Sydney Merkow (Audio)

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Ep. 3 Episode 2 - From the Stands to the Sand: A Dad–Daughter Sports Journey Conversation with Madison Merkow

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Ep. 2 Episode 2 - From the Stands to the Sand: A Dad–Daughter Sports Journey Conversation with Madison Merkow (Audio)

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