Senior Stories By Cogir

Ep. 19 John and Mary Millsap, Cadence at Rancho Cucamonga by Cogir.


John and Mary have lived in various places, including Northern and Southern California, Wisconsin, and eventually Rancho Cucamonga. John, an architect, had a diverse career working on projects like schools, hospitals, and urban parks across the U.S. Married in 1965, John and Mary built a life together, balancing each other’s strengths—John’s professional confidence and Mary’s social skills. As Mary’s health declined, they sought a supportive environment. After researching several communities, they chose Cadence Rancho Cucamonga due to its welcoming atmosphere, excellent care, and seamless integration of medical support. John has found companionship and activities in the community, easing his transition as Mary’s condition progresses. Throughout the interview, John reflects on their journey with a mix of nostalgia, humor, and resilience, embracing each phase of life as an adventure.

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